The Lesbian’s Guide to Starting a Conversation Online

Striking up a chat is one of the many struggles you’ll face while finding a partner online, but don’t let that stop you! There are plenty of ways to break the ice and start a comfortable conversation. All you need is a ton of confidence and faith in yourself; the rest will be smooth sailing.

Whether you’re new to the world of online dating or a seasoned pro, here are some simple ways to start a conversation online.

Polish your profile

Discovering your soul mate online is like finding your dream career. First, you need to polish up your profile to attract quality prospects. Next, you’ll need a plan to zero in on the best candidate. Finally, with the correct strategies, you can find the most compatible woman for you.

Confidence is key

Before you start the conversation online, it’s crucial that you feel confident in yourself and your goals. Likewise, you should never provide a false impression or lie about who you are. Don’t change who you are to please others—instead, play up your best qualities. If you have a good sense of humor, this is the perfect time to throw out a cheesy pickup line and meet your comedic match.

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Wow her with your wits

Some women can be won over by appealing to their intellect rather than their emotions. If you want to win her mind over her heart, ditch the typical dinner and ask her on a bookstore date instead. Just remember not to let your competitive side take over. Keep the conversation light-hearted and casual. Trying to sound too intellectual or wordy might sound like you’re trying too hard and put her off.

Respect her time

Sometimes the fault isn’t in your approach but in the circumstances. If she’s into you, she’ll make it clear. Don’t waste your and the other person’s time by being pushy or persistent when she’s clearly expressed a lack of interest. If you find yourself out of options, simply switch up the filters a little and look for more compatible matches.

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